1. The sponsor of the American Imago, the Association for Applied Psychoanalysis, ap-pointed me their Director of Research, and I conducted my initial research on The History of Childhood hook under their auspices, but they actually refused to publish anything in their journal that resulted from my work. See Lloyd deMause, Psycho-geneotogy: New Directions of Research in Applied Psychoanalysis. Report to the Association for Applied Psychoanalysis, Inc,, December 2, 1968
2. The closest
anthropologists came to recognizing the lautological quality of the "culture
and personality" modeL was in Melford Spiro's excellent artkle "Culture
and Personality: The Natural History of a False Dichotomy," Psychiatry
14 (195l):l9~, Few took his words to heart, and psychoanthropology today is
still taught as "culture and personality" in most college courses.
3. Asking the questi6n
this way, of course, opens one to the charges of "psychological reductionism,"
and predictably these charges have been made against much of my writing since
that time. When one, however, removes the pejorative tone from the charge and
instead accepts the goal of reductLon as part 0f the search for scientific simplicity,
one ends up with a model of what philosophers have termed "methodological
individualism," which accepts that only individuals have motives, but allows
that individuals in groups may have different motives than when alone. This
methodological stance only works, of course, when the psychological theory one
works with is "social" at base, as is psychoanalysis, where the individual
psyche is already teeming with "others." See j .W.N. Watkins, "Methodological
Individualism and Non-Hempelian [deal Types," in Leonard I. Krimerman,
ed., The Nature and Scope r,f Social Science: A Critical Anrhrc}kigy. New York:
Appleton-Cent~y-Crofts, 1969, pi'. 457-72; George C. Ijornaris, The Nature'
of Social Science. New York: ilarcourt, Brace and World, 1967.
4. Sigmund Freud,
quoted in Herman Nunherg and Ernst Federn, eds., Minutes 0/the Vienna P4vhoanaiyiic
Society. 1908-1910, New York: Iniernalional Universities Press, [967, p. 174.
5. Ceza Roheim, "The Evolution of Culture," in Bruce Mazush, ed., Psychoanalysis and History. Englewool Cliffs: Prentice-Hall, 1963, p. ~4.
6. Geza Roheim,
Prychoanolysts and Anthropology: Cu/lure. Personality attd the tin-conscious.
New York: International Universities Press, 1950, p. 62.
7. Arthur Ili:.
Rippler, "Culture and Per~natity Perspective of the Yotngu of Nor rheastern
Ambem Land: Par J~Ear1y Socialization," JournalofpsychologicaiAn-Ibropology
1(1978): 223-44.
8. Robert A. Paul,
"Review of Lloyd deMause's Foundations of Psychohistory, "The Journal
of Psychoanajylic Anthrr4:oh,gy 5(1982):469.
9. In 1988, after
a decade or pubikation, the readership of The Journal of Psychoanalytic Anthropology
had dropped from a high of two thousand to only three hundred, and I had to
incorporate it into The Journal of Psyclrohisroty. Only ilip-pIer, as editor,
wrote the kind of childrearing articles which we had hoped the journal "'quId
attract.
10. Lloyd deMause,
"Reply to Paul, Ilalley and Ciraber," JournalofPsyc.hoana/yiicAn-thropology
5(19s2):4834.
11. James Strachey,
ed., The Standard Edition of the Cornplete Psychological tt'orks of Signiund
Freud. Vol. XXI. Lotidon: The Hogartln Press, pp.95, 104~5. While Freud wisely
ends the essay with a demurral about whether civiL' zaflon causes unhappiness
(p. 244), his wbote purpose is to show Ibat civilization proceeds at the expense
of sex-ual happiness, panic~arly at the expense of childhood sexual freedom.
Where he was led astray by anthropologists is in the empirical facts: actua]ly.
most "uncivilized" (Contemporary nonAiterate tribal) children are
in fact sexually molested by adults, not sexually repressed by them,' see Lloyd
deMause, "What Incest Barrier?" and "The Universality of Incest,"
Ihe Journal of Psychohistory l5(l9~8) aid forthcoming.
12. Freud, "Civilization
and its Discontents," p. 115.
13. The phrase
is that of Frank F. Manuel, "The Use and Abuse of Psychology in History,"
Daedalus IOO(197t):203.
14. Philippe Ari~s,
Centuries of Childhood.' A Social History of Family Uc. London: Jonathan Cape,
3962. For a bibliography of works cattier than Anies, see Hoyl deMause, Foundations
ofPsychohistory. New York: Psychohistory Press, 1962, pp. 64-66.
15. Arils, Ibid,
r). 101, 106.
16. 'bid, pp. 103,105.
17. Jean H~roard.
Journalde l'enfanceer de laprennierejeunessede Louis XUr. Edited by Fudore Soulie'
and Edouard de Barthtierny. 2 v~s. Paris: Firmin Didot Fr~res, fits Cs cie.
1868.
18. Elizabeth ,Wirth
Marvick, Louis XIIL' The Making of a king. New Haven: Yale University Press,
3986, p.223,
19. Alan Valentine,
ed., Fathers to Sons: Advke Without Consent. Norwan, Oklahoma: University of
Oktahoma Press, 1963, p. xxx.
20. Despite this
staternent, the author was a careful and honest hktorian, who reported accurately
an the horrors she discovered in seventecnth-centurr French childhood; see Elisa'
beth Wirth Marvick, "Na~re Versrs Nurture: Patterns and Trends in Seventeenth-Century
French Child-Rearing," iri Lloyd deMause, ed., The History of Childhod.
New York: Psychobistory Press, 1974, pp.259-301. It was only her conclutons
which were divorced from the evidence she so carefully reported.
21. John Demos,
A Litrie Conrnton wealth: Pirrni(r Uc in Plyniouth Colony. New York: Oxford
Press, 1970.
22. See Lloyd deMause,
Foundations of Psychohtstory. New York: Creative Roots, l9~2, pp 125-6, Demos's
statement about Farle's lack or evidence can be found on page 133 or A Little
Cotrimon wealth.
23. John Demos,
"Child Abuse in Context: An Historian's Perspective,'' in his Past, Pre-sent
and Personal: Ihe Family and The Life Course inAmencan Hkiory. New York: Oxford
University Press, 1986, pp.68-91. Predictably, when this book was pttblished
many advocates of hitting children cited Demos's work as evidence that colonial
Americans could hit their children without abusing them; see' 'Positive Side
of Spank-ing," Des Moines Register, September 7, 1988, p. II.
24. Ibid, p.87
25. Ibid, pp.81-82.
26. Pauline Maier,
"Family Feuds," The New Republic, April 13, 987, p.39.
27. Cited in James
Bruce Rtsss, ''The Middle-Glass Child in Urban Italy, Fourteenth to Early Sixteenth
Century," in Lloyd deMause, ed., Tire' History ofChildhooj New York: Psychohistory
Press, 1974 (reprinted, New York: Peter Bedrick Books; 1988), pp. 198-99
28. Ibid, p. 198.
29. Unfortunalely,
with only a tifty-page introduction to give my extensive evidence. I had to
be satisfied with long footnotes backing up each conclusion by marty typical
Cx-amples from primary sources; what had to he left out was the usual lengthy
discus-sions of the reliability of cacti of the sources, which would have taken
three times that space alone and would have meant I would have had to publish
a full book of my own. In view of the frequent criticism of this essay for sot
containing this. scholarly discussion, perhaps it was a mistake not to have
published a full book of my own from the start. However. without rIte other
nine cotitributors being present, the book would likely not have been reviewed
or read by the general historical community~as, for in-stance, was the case
with my Foundations ofPss'cltohisrory and Reagan'sAtnerica. In any case, this
discussion of the reliability ofsources wiLl be published more lilly in my next
two books.
30. Lloyd deNlause,
"The Evolution of Childhood," in deMause, The History of Childhood,
p. I.
31. joseph F. Ken,
The American Historical Review 80(t975):1296.
32. E.P. Hennock,
Soeia~ Hktoryv, 3(1978):237. Marvick and Hennock's supposition that swaddling
was primarily a way to keep babies warm is contradicted by many sources: infants
were riot unswaddled during hot summers; hot countries swaddled as often and
as long as cold countries; swaddling appears to have been introduced first in
Egypt and Mesopotamia; etc.
33. Alan Macfarlane,
English Historical Review' 92(1977):594.
34. Keith Thomas,
New Statesman, 16 April 1976, p.512.
35. Philippe An'~,
"Dc 'enfant roi A l'enfant martyr," Revue Psychotogie 68(1975):6.
36. Besides the
American edition, the book was published in England (London: Souvenir Press,
1974); Germany (Bore ihr die Kinder weinen: Fine psychogenetrsche Geschichte
der kindheit. Frankfurt: Suhrkamp Verlag, 1977); Italy (Storia deIt'infanzia.
Milano: Emme Edizioni, 1983); Spain (Historia de Ia infancia. Madrid: Aliana
Editorial, 1982); and my introductory essay was reprinted in France as the opening
chapter of my Lesfondations de Ia psycirohistorie. Paris: Presses Universitaires
de France, 1982 and by itself in German (Veber die Geschiehte der Kindheit.
Frankfurt: Sulirkamp Verlag, 1979) and in Japanese (Tokyo: Kaimeisha, 1988).
My introductory essay was also reprinted in my Foundations of Psychohistory.
New York: Crearive Roots, 1982, pp.1-83 and elsewhere in abbreviated form.
37. Lawrence Stone,
"The Massacre of the Innocents," New York Review of Books; November
14, 1974, p- 29. Stone would later overcome his bewilderment and call my work
"psychological reductionism of the most extreme type." Sec Lawrence
Stone, ihe Past and the Present. Boston: Routledge & Kegart Paul, 1982,
p.41.
38. E.P. Hennock,
Soc-jot History 3(1978): 235,237.
39. Glenn Davis,
Childhood and History in America. New York: Psychohistory Press, 976, p.S.
40. Ibid, p.248-9.
In answer to those who doubted Davis' reliability of evidence, reviewer Henry
Lawton "personally made a random survey of relevant material nor cited
in the book and found ample confirmation for its conclusions. Glenn Davis has,
I think, done quite well in avoiding the pitfall of reading too much into his
evidence." Henry W. Lawron, "History and rIle Lives or Children,"
The Jotirnal of Psychohistory 4(1977):531.
41. The New York
Times Book Review, April24, 1977, pp. 11,41
42. Robert H, Bremmer,
American Historkal Review, 82(1977): 1319-20.
43. howard I. Kushner,
Journal ofAnterican History 65(1979):1090.
44. The single
review or Davis which considered his evidence-quite fairly in my opi-nion-was
by the psychoanalyst Miles ~. Shore, "'The
Psychogenic Theory of History," Journal of lnrerdisciplinary History 9(1979):5
17-523. Shore also had earlier written one of the most perceptive reviews of
The History of Childhood, "The Child and Historiography," Journal
of interdisciplinary History 4(1976)495-505
45. Lloyd deMause,
Foundations of Psychohistory p. 300'. David R. Beisel, "From History to
Psychohistory: A Personal Journey," The Journal of Psychohistory 5(1978):l-66.
46. Kenneth S.
Lynn, The Chronicle of Higher Education, January 16, 1978, p.48.
47. Letter to Lloyd
deMause, Glenn Davis, February 25, 1980.
48. William L.
Langer, "Infanticide: A Historical Survey," Hislory of Childhood Quarterly
l(1974):353-65; "Further Notes on the History of Infanticide" History
of Childhood Quarterly 2(1974): 129-134.
49. RIchard C.
Trexler, "Inranticide in Florence; New Sources and First Results,"
History of Childhood Quarterly l(1973):98-l 16; "The Foundlings of Florence,
1395-1455," History of Childhood Quarterly l( 1973):259-84.
50. Emily Coleman,
"Medieval Marriage Characteristics: A Neglected Factor in the History of
Medieval Serrdom," Journal of Interdisciplinary History, 2(1971):207-215;
"L'inranticide dans Ic Haul Moyen Age," Annales: deonotnies, soci4te's,
civilisotions, (1974):315-335. Also see the evidence presented by S. Ryan Johansson,
"Centuries of Childhood/Centuries of Parenting: Philippe Arus and the Modernization
of Privileged Infancy," Journal of Family History 12(1987):355 that seventeenth-century
ruling-class families had as high infant death rates as the lower classes. who
were "poorly nourished, badly housed, and embedded in a filthy, disease-ridden
environment," showing that these rich parents "did not want all the
in-fants born to them to survive.
5I. "The Formation
of the American Personality Through Psychosp'eciation: Appendix: On the Demography
or Filicide," The Journal of Psychohistory 4(1976):l-30, reprinted in deMause,
Foundations of Psychohistory. New York: Creative Roots, 1982, pp.105-131.
52. Joseph Kelt,
American Historical Review 8o(1975):1296.
53. Ibid, pp. 117-18.
Unfortunately, Herlihy declined my invitation to reply to my analysis of his
and other statistics, and has not defended his "miscounting" hypothesis
anywhere else since then.
54. Barbara A.
Kellum, "Infanticide in England in the Later Middle Ages," History
of Childhood Quarterly 1(1974):367-388; R.H. Helmholz, "Infanticide in
the Province of Canterbury During the Fifteenih Cent ury,'' littrory ~,f ( 'Irthihood
ottarterly 2(1975):379-90.
55. Lloyd deMause,
''On the Demography or Filicide,'' Foundations of Psycqtohtstory. New York:
Creative RooLs, 1982, p. 123.
56. Bogna W. Lorence,
"Parents and Children in Eighteenth-Century Europe," History of Childhood
Quarterly 2(1974):l.
57. Alenka Puhar,
"Childhood in Nineteenth-Century Slovenia," The Jounial of Psychohistory
12(1985):291-312 and Alenka Puhar Prrottto besedilo Z~Vfl:tr~U (The Prinnary
Text ofLifeJ. Zabreg: Globus, 1982.
58. Puhar, "Childhood
in Nineteenth-Century Slovenia," pp- 294-301.
59. Friedhelm Nyssen,
Die Gesehichie der Kindheir bei L. Dc Abuse: Quellernhskussion. Frankfurt: Peter
Lang, 1985. See also his "Gescbichte der Kindheit als Schwarze Paedagogik?
Zu Kaiharina Rutschkys Kritik an L. deMause" Jahrbuch der Aindileit 4(1987):55-66.
60. Aurel Ende, "Battering and Neglect: Cbildren in Germany, 1860-1978," The Journal of Psychohistory 7(1980):249-279; also see Aurel Ende, "Bibliography on Childhood and Youth in Germany from 1820-1978: A Selection,'' The Jountal of Psy{i)Qhisrory 7(1980):281-287; Aurel Enle, "The Psychohisiorian's Childhood and the Hi' tory of Childhood," The Journal ofpsychohiswry 9(1981):173-8: Auret Ende, "Zur ('.c'cliichtc der Stillfeindlichkeit in Deutschland, 1850-1978," Kindheit 1(1979), 203-14.
61. Raffael Scheck,
"Childhood in German Autobiographical Writings, 1740-1820," The Journal
of Psychohistory 15(1987):39l -422; Raffael Scheck, "Aspeicte deutscher
Kin-dheit: 1740-1820." Jahrbuch der Kindheii 4(1987)11-35.
62. Ibid, pp.414-S.
63. Seymour Byman,
"Child Raising and Melancholia in Tudor England," The Journal of Psychohistory
6(1978):85.
64. Ibid, p.73
65. Karen Taylor,
"Blessing the House: Moral Motherhood and the Suppression of Physical Punishment,"
The Journal of Psychohistory l5(1987):431-54.
66. KarenJ. Taylor,
"VenereaL Disease in Nineteenth-Century Children," Thejournalof Psychohistory
12(1985):43 1-63.
67. This estimate
was a personal communicatinn to me from Karen Taylor.
68. Barbara Finkelstein,
"Pcdagogy as Intrusion: Teaching Value' in Popular Primary Schools in Nineteenth-Century
America," History 'j Childhood Quarterly 2(1975):349-78; "In Fear
of Childhood: Relationships Between Parents and Teachers in Popular Primary
Schools in the Nineteenth Century," Ibstory of Churl/rood Quarterly 3(1976):321~35;
"The Twain Shall Meet: The History of Childhood and the History of Education
in Documents," The Journal ofPsychohistory44l977):553-59,' "Schooling
and the Discovery of Latency in Nineteenth-Century America," The Journal
of Psychohistory 13(1985):3-12,' Barbara Finkelstein, ed., Regulafed Children/Liberated
Children: Education in Psychohistoricat Perspective. New York: Psychohistory
Press 1979
69. Barbara Finkelstein,
"In Fear of Childhood," pp.321-2.
70. Ardyce Masters,
"The Doll as Delegate and Disguise," The Journal of Psychohistory
I3(1986):293-307
71. Elizabeth Pleck,
Domestic Tyranny: The Making ofAmerican Sodal Policy Against Family Violencefrom
Colonial Times to the Present, New York: Oxford University Press, 1987, p.46.
72. Roger Thompson,
"Popular Attitudes Towards Children in Middlesex County, Massachusetts,
1649-1699," The Journal of Psychohistory 13(1985):146.
73. Ibid, p. 156.
74. Joseph F. Illick,
"Does the History of Childhood Have a Future?" The Journal of Psychohistory
I 3(19851:159-70.
75. Aurel Ende,
"Comment," The Journal of Psychohistory t3(1985):l74.
76. Besides The
History of Childhood and Histor;;' and Childhood in America, the Psychohistory
Press also published in the field of childhood history: Lloyd deMauc, ed., The
:\Yw Psychohistory (1975); Helm Stierlin, Adolf flit/cr: A Family Perspec-ut-c
(1976)'. Barbara Finkelstein, ed., Regulated CItildretr/Lil)erated Children:
Edttco-ton in Psyc.hohistoricalPerspective(1979); and Vivian Fox and Martin
Quiti, Loving, Parenting and Dying: Dre Patnily C,r'c.le in England and Attrerica,
Past and Present, (1980).
77. Joseph Itlick,
"Does the History of Childhood Have a Future?" p. 165.
78. See sources
cited in footnote 122, Lloyd deMause, "The Evolution of Childhood,'' in
deMause, ed., The history of Childhood, p.62, plus Tertullian, Apcflogy, 2-4,
7-9, and his Ad Nationes, 1,7, 10. Also see extensive sources in G. Charles-Picard,
Les religions de l'AJr'ique antique, Paris 1954.
79. Lawrence E.
Stager and Samuel R. Wolff, "Child Sacrifice at Carthage: Religious Rite
or Population Control?" Bil,h',al Archaeology flerdew, January/February
1984, p.31-SI; PG. Mosca, Child Sacrifict in Canaanite and Israelite Religion.'
A Study in Malk and Molech, Ph.D. dissertation, Harvard University, 1975: L.E.
Stager, "The Rite of Child Sacrifice at Carthage" in i.G. Pedley,
ed., New Light on Ancient Car-thage. Ann Arbor: University of Michigan Press,
1980; M. Weinfeld, "The Worship of Moleeb and of the Queen of Heaven and
Its Background," Ugan't-Forsc.hrttrgen 4(1972):133-i54; Malcolm W. Browne.
"Relics of Carthage Show Brutality Amid the Good Life," The New York
Times, September 1,1987, pp. Cl, C3.
80. Peter Warren,
"Knossos: New Excavations and Discoveries," Archaeology, July/August
1984, pp. 47~55.
81. Emil Eyben,
''Family Plannin8 in Antiquity." trans. by P. Van Dessel,Ancientsocie-ty
I l/l2(1980/1981):5-82. Also see E.E. Vardiman, Die Frau in der Artik,. Sit-tcngeschichie
der Frau im Altertuert. Wien-Duesseldorf: Leon, 1982.
82. Henry Ebel,
"The Evolution of Childhood Reconsidered," The Journal of Psychohistory
5(1977):67-s0.
83. Ibid, p, 67,.
84. Ibid, pp.71
and 76.
85. Ibid, p.77
86. Lloyd deMause,
"The Evolution of Chitethood," in deMause, ed., The History of Childhood.
New York: Psychohistory Press, 1974, p.3,
87. Peter Petschauer,
''Growing Up Fetnale in Eighteenth-Century Germany," The Jour-nalofPsychohistory
t1(1983):181; "Children of Afers, or 'Evolution of Childhood' Revisited,"
The Journal ofPsychohistory l3(1985):138.
88. Petschauer,
"Children of Aters," pp. 121-44.
89. Lloyd deMause,
"Evolution of Childhood," pp.32-35.
90. Peter Petschauer,
''Intrusive to Socializaing Modes: Transitions in Eighteenth-Century Germany
and Twentieth-Century Italy," The Journal of Psychohistory
14(1987):257-70.
91. ibid, p.259
92. Ibid, p.260.
93. The reason
I have yet to address these questions ofdifferential evolution ofchildrear-mg
practices (first approached in my article "The Formation or the American
Per-sonality Through Psychospeciation," Foundations of Psychohistory, New
York:
Creative Roots, 1982, pp.105-131) is that, unlike Darwin, I had no Linnacus
available to devise classifications. Only now that a rough outline or childrearing
stages is emerg-mg can one begin to set out evolttrionary mechanisms affecting
psychospeciat ion and begin to explain why some groups are still eating their
babies, as Paleolithic man did, and some are empathic toward them and help them
grow up to mature adults.
94. Alice Miller,
Prisoners of Childhood. New York: Basic Books, 1981 (Published in paperback
as The Drama of the Gifted Child); Alice Miller, For Your Own Good:
hidden Critelty in Child-Rearing and rho Roots of Violence. New York: Far-rar/Straus/Giroux,
1983; Alice Miller, Thou StraIt Not Be A ware.' Society's Betrayal of the Cit
lid. New York: Farrar/Straus/Girou~, 1984.
95. Alice Miller,
For Your Own Good, p.62.
96. Katharina Rutschky,
ed., Schwar;e Paedogogik: Quellen zur i\'aturgeschichte der
batergerlichen Erziehung. Frankfurt/Ntain-Berlin-W Len: Ullstein Buecher, 977;
Katharina Rutschky, Deutsche Kinder-Chrc)nik: IVunsch- und Schrakens.bilder
aus
var Jahrhunderten. Koeln: Kiepenheuer & Witsch, 1983.
97. Kaiharina Rutschky,
Deutsche Kinder-Chronik, pp. xxx-xxxni.
98. Friedhelrn
Nyssen, ''Geschichte der Kindheit ails Schwarze Paedgogik? Zu Katharina Rntschkys
Kritik an L.. deMause," Jahrbucls der Kinclheit 4(l987):55-66.
99. See Aurel Ende's
review of the recent litcraturc in his ''Children in History: A. Per-sonal Review
of the Past Decade's Priblished Research," The Jounral of Psychohistory
I l(1983):6S-88.
100. Klaus Arnold,
Kind und Gesellschaft in Mittetalter 'and Rertaissarice. Paderborn: Fer-dinand
Schoeningh, 1980, p.14. Arnold appears to have misread my "Evolution"
ar-ticle and betieves I said all children today were being raised in the "helping
mode." See review of Arnold's book by Peter Petschauer, The Journal of
Psychohistory 12(1984):259-il. Other works doubting improvement in childhood
can be found discussed in Aurel Ende, "Children in History: A Personal
Review of the Past Decade's Published Research," The Journal of Psychohisfory
I l(1983):63-88.
101. Linda A. PolLock,
Forgotten Children: Parent-(::hild Relations from 1500 to 1900. Cambridge: Cambridge
University Press, 1983.
102. Review of
Pollack by John R. Gillis, Journal of InterdisctpIinary History l6(1985):142-44.
103. Review of
Pollaelt by Peter K. Smith, Bulletin of the British Psychological Society (1984):1S8.
104. Review or
Pollock by Sophie Freud, Dynamic Psychotherapy 4(1986)'.92,
105. Review of
Pollaek in the Journal Of the History of the Behavioral Sciences
22(1986):259.
106. She does devote
three pages to newspaper reports, but only uses them to conclude that "parents
could not treat their children exactLy as they pleased, even when there was
no specific law to protect children." (p.95)
107. Ibid, p. 172.
108. "The
fl'nal list of sources was checked against those in Linda Pollock's Forgotten
Children . . - to Insure that every source she examined had been included."
Elizabeth Fleck, Domestic Tyranny: The Making of American Social Policy Against
Family Violence From Colonial Times to the Present. New York: Oxford University
Press, 1987, p. 205.
109. Ibid, p.237.
110. Linda Pollock,
Forgotten Children, pp.199, 268. Besides the dependence only on the reports
of the parents and the use of argutnenlum cx silenho, Polleck uses other means
to distort what she found, such as: the substitution of her word "smack"
for parents who used the word "whip" (e.g., p.174,175),' the selective
use ofevidence, as when she says Witliarn Byrd was "against harsh discipline"
because he once said he thought his wife too cruel to his niece, though another
time, which Pollock does not relate, he often whipped her himself and once forced
her to "drink a pint of piss" (p. 152'. Byrd's statement can be found
in his diary for 8 October 1710; for a full discus-sion or Byrd as a parent,
see john F. Walzer, ''A Period of Ambivalence: Eighteenth-Century American Childhood,"
in Lloyd deMause, The Hisrory of Childhood, pp. 351-382); her odd practice throughout
the book or labeling a diarist by the date of his or her birth, rather than
by the time they wrote, so that, for instance, M. Woods (1748-1821) writes in
the late 18th century but is included in the period 170049 by Pollock, thus
having the affect of making all statements seem evidence for conditions
a full generation earlier than they were (p.156). She also, like most critics,
distons my thesis by presenting it as though I said that all parents in every
century were acting in the same childrearing mode-so that everyone today is
part of the helping mode and totally empathic to their children-whereas I actually
said previous childrearing modes persist in later periods, so that all six modes
can be found among today's
parents.
111. Aurel Ende,
"Children in History: A Personal Review of the Past Decade's Published
Research," The Journal of Psychohistory 11 (1983):73.
112. Philip Creven,
The Protestant Te~npera,r,ent: Patterns of Child-Rearing, Rehgious Lxperience
and the Self in Early Atrierica. New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1977, pp
265-70.
113. l~twrcncc
Stone, The lamely, Sex and Marriage in England 1500-1800. New York:
Ilarper & Row, 1977, p.758. For excellent reviews of the shortcomings of
Stone's book and his misuse of primary sources, see Seymour Byman, "Psychohistory
At-tacked," The Journal of Psychohistory 5(1978):575-586 and Vivian Fox,
"Comment" Ibid, 587-597.
114. Lawrence Stone,
"The Massacre of the Innocents," The New York Review oJBooks, November
14, 1974, p. 29. Stone's book, however, is far richer in sources for childhood
than most of the others.
115.
Daniel Blake Smith, "Autonomy and Affection: Parents and Children in Eighteenth-Century
Chesapeake Families," in Harvey J. Graff, ed., Growing Up in America:
Historical Experiences Detroit: Wayne State University Press, 1987, p.138. Otherex-amples
of books on childhood that sidestep the emotional life of children which have
been published since our book include Edward Shorter, The Making of the Modern
Fattidy. New York: Basic Books, 1975; Ingeborg Weber-Kellermann, Die Kindheu:
ICine Kulturgesthidite Frankfurt/M,: Insel Veriag, 1979; Jean-Louis Flandrin.
l~'atiiihes in I'ortirer Times;' Kinship, Ilouseholc£ and Sexuality. Cambridge:
Cam-bridge University l~ress, 1979; Datuel Blake Smith, Inside the Great house:
Planter l"aiiiily Life if, Eighteenth-c 'entury C'hesapeake Society.. Ithaca:
Cornell University Press, 1980; Wilhelm Theopold, Das Kind in der Votivmalerei.
Munchen: Verlag Kral Thiemig, 1981; Ferdinand Mount, The Subversive Family:
An Alternative History of Love and Marriage. London: Jonathan Cape, 1982; C.
John Sommerville, The Rise and Fall of Childhood. New York: Sage Publications,
1982; Keith Wrightson, English Society 1580-1680. New Brunswick: Rutgers Univtrsity
Press, 1982; James Waln'n, A Child's World: A Society History of English Childhood,
18OO~I9J4. London:
Penguin, 1982; Steven Ozment, When Fathers Ruled: Family Life in Reformation
Europe. Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1983; Stephen Wilson, "The
Myth of Motherhood a Myth: The Historical View of European Child-Rearing,"
Social History 9(1984):181-198; N. Ray Hiner and Joseph M. Hawes, Growing Up
in Atnerica: Children in Historical Perspective, Urbana: University of Illinois
Press, 1985; Alan Macfarlane, Marriage and Love in England: Modes of Reproduction
1300-1840. London: Blackwell, 1986; John Gillis, For Better, For Worse: British
Mar-riages 1600 to the Present. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 1986.
In contrast, Elizabeth Wirth Marvick's excellent Louis XIIP The Making of a
King (New Haven: Yale University Press, 1986), although it does not address
itself to ques-tions of historical change because it is only about a single
child, is an important excep-tion to the Scotomizing of unpleasant facts from
which the other works mentioned above suffer. Similarly, Elisabeth Badinter's
Mother Love: Myth & ReaIity-Moth~r~ hood in Modern History (New York: Macmillan
Publishing Co., 1980) is an excellent source for French childhood history, although
her overall theory that mother love suddenly was invented only because the child
had acquired a "commercial value" is an unfortunate one. Similarly.
Jonathan Gathorne-Ilardy's The Rise and Fall of the British Nanny (London: Hodder
and Stoughton, 1972) and Ronald Pearsall's ~Wht's Black Angels: The Forms and
Facrs of Victoria,, Cruelty (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1975) have excellent
material on British childhood in the nineteenth cen-tury.
116. Thomas Kuhn,
The Structure of Scientific Revolutions. Chicago: University of Chicago Press,
1962.
117. Anew publisher
for The History ofChddhood has just reprinted it in hardcover and paperback
editions: Peter Bedrick Books (New York), 1988.
118. Florence Rush,
The Best Kept Secret: Sexual Abuse of Children. Engrewood Cliffs:
Prentice-flail, 1980. Although Rush apparently wrote this book without having
discovered any of our work on the history of sexual abuse, ii is an excellent
piece of historical detective work in an impossibly difficult held.
119. Gerald M. Edelman, Neural Darwinism: The theory of Neuronal Group Selection, New York: Basic Books, 1987. If Edelman is correct, then the evolution or childhood not only determines the way we see the world (an adult who was swaddLed as a baby sees a different world than one which had been allowed freedom) but also determines the actual anatomy of our brain (an aduLt who was swaddled as a baby has quite dif-ferent neural structures than one who was free). For the conjunction of Freud and Edelman, see Israel Rosenfield The Invention of Memory: A New View of the Brain. New York: Basic Books, 1988.